Tune in to the Hokie experience
February tips for parents and families from Mark Sikes, Dean of Students
Dear Hokie Families,
As we begin the spring semester at Virginia Tech, you may notice your student juggling classes, extracurricular pursuits, and a variety of events happening across campus. This early stretch of the academic term is the perfect time for families to “tune in” to the Hokie experience, support our motto of Ut Prosim (That I May Serve), and strengthen your role as your student’s greatest advocate.
One of the defining features of Virginia Tech is our unwavering commitment to service. Ut Prosim reminds us that knowledge and personal growth go hand in hand with contributing to the greater good. Your student may find new ways to live out this motto, whether by joining service-oriented student groups, volunteering with local community partners, or discovering personal passions through leadership and outreach activities. At home, you can reinforce the spirit of service by sharing how you engage in your own community. Encourage your student to see giving back not just as a campus tradition, but as a lifelong calling that enriches both the volunteer and those they serve.
During February, take the opportunity to connect with us via our social media channels and the Hokie Family Hub. Keeping up with the calendar and knowing about upcoming events will keep you connected and can spark meaningful conversations that help your student process what they are learning and experiencing.
As you check in with your student, remember that the early weeks of the semester can bring a mix of excitement and challenge. Coursework is gaining momentum, and students might be stepping into new responsibilities in clubs, leadership roles, or part-time jobs. They may feel added stress, uncertainty, or anticipation. By being a patient listener and sounding board, you can help them navigate challenges and celebrate their achievements. If they need academic support, remind them of resources such as the Student Success Center for tutoring and study skills, and if they are dealing with stress or anxiety, encourage them to reach out to the Cook Counseling Center or visit the Hokie Wellness website. Sometimes a brief conversation about available services can make all the difference.
In addition, as your student gains more independence, try to balance offering support with gently empowering them to seek solutions on their own. Whether it is guiding them toward connecting with a professor about an assignment or suggesting they talk to an advisor about a difficult decision, encouraging them to advocate for themselves lays the groundwork for confidence and resilience. This skill building will benefit them at Virginia Tech and in all aspects of their future.
Thank you for entrusting us with your student’s education and growth. It is an honor to serve them and to serve you. Should you have any questions or concerns, know that the Dean of Students Office stands ready to help. Together, let us continue to uphold the ideals of Ut Prosim and create a campus environment where every Hokie can thrive.
Warmly,
Mark Sikes, Ph.D.
Dean of Students
smsikes@vt.edu
540-231-6272
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The Dean of Students Office knows Virginia Tech. Encourage your student to get to know this caring and talented team of mentors and advocates! They can point your student in the right direction, be a sounding board, and assist with personal, social, and academic challenges. They want to get to know your student so they can walk with them along the way and cheer them on in true Hokie fashion!
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